It’s a beautiful thing to trust the Lord to carry out justice for us, and even when we fail God’s purpose still stands: He turns the ashes for beauty, our misjudgments (“Crucify Him”!) for our redemption, extending mercy and help for our pitiful efforts, leaving us to boast in His righteousness alone.
For two Christians, there is no such thing as irreconcilable differences. If two people believe the Gospel, then for the one who sinned, the Gospel compels them to repent and ask forgiveness. For the one sinned against, the Gospel compels them to forgive their offender.